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If you're a large woman in America, your whole life is an opportunity to feel self-conscious, embarrassed, resentful and way too big. You can hide in the corner or on the couch, you can go to therapy, or you can put on your lycra bike shorts and get out there and move.
—Jayne Williams, Slow Fat Triathlete

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December 21, 2006

to the white guy who sat in the middle of a three-seat bench on the bus - permalink

Mural RoomYes, you, with your hemp and recycled rubber, your oh-so-hipster garb! Why are you too good to move over and share a three-seat bench? It was so kind that you let me squeeze in beside you, it just filled me with the Christmas spirit. Bah, humbug. What is wrong with you people?

I don't get it. Are you entitled to a three-seat bench because you're white and middle-class and male? Because you buy groovy expensive recycled things that advertise how groovy and expensive you are? My mother would back hand me if I acted like you did. And she'd have reason.

And what was my crime? That I dress like a social worker, going to work? That I'm middle-aged? That I'm fat? That I walk with a limp? What sorts of assumptions were you making about me?

You know, if you had moved over, we both would have had a bit more room. You wouldn't have had to lean into me as I fished into my pocket for a tissue. But you seemed to want to punish me for sitting down with you, one white guy, on a three seat bench. As you noticed, I do fit into one seat. As do you. You could have made this a pleasant experience for both of us. And you would have seemed like less of an asshole.

I hope Santa brings you coal.
VJ

Posted at December 21, 2006

Comments

Maybe santa will bring him Something else!

Posted by: Misty at December 21, 2006 1:44 PM

Posted by: Misty at December 21, 2006 1:45 PM

Started reading your musings after doing a search for Townies (I, too, am slow, trying to be brave, and not-so-young). Loved this post...

Hang in there, and Merry Christmas from the cornfields of Central Illinois.

Posted by: Suzanne at December 22, 2006 11:50 AM

Not sure what his being white has to do with it, but guys like that drive me up the wall

Posted by: marci at December 30, 2006 8:29 AM